I have stayed alone. The last time I was with a woman was almost 5 years ago and that didn't go well, nor did the time before that. In fact my wife left me because of my inadequacy. The last woman I was with told me after sex we wouldn't be getting together again because when she's with a man first she wants it to take longer than a minute and she wants to be able to feel it. She added that with my little thing I may as well have been using my finger. She said "at least with your finger you could still be licking my pussy." She told me to leave after she said, "if I want to be fingered and licked; I have a girlfriend for that."